Females and Your Business

This is a hard topic for a lot of male artists because girls is a lot of our weaknesses. There are a few things that come with girls...

Sex, a relationship, babies and sometimes, trouble.

Part of blocking and letting go of negativity so you can succeed as a professional is thinking about what girls are around you and what they are bringing to the table.


 

Girls are like friends, except you like them just a little bit more. You need to look at girls as just people and just like people, they may hinder your success



At this point I'm talking about girls in the club, outside or on facebook and myspace. The ones that you and your friends are always after. Stop looking for girls. Girls should be looking for you. Anyway, you need to focus on your business and your music, not girls. Do you agree?

I'm going to bring this old sane back because its great, it goes a little something like this...

“You can loose a lot of money going after woman, but you will never loose woman going after money”

When I move to the topic of a girlfriend, its pretty much the same thing but a little different. If you have a girlfriend, then you are in a mature situation. Especially since you’ve decided to make music for a living. A girlfriend is cool but she can either make you or break you. You need to make sure your girlfriend is going to “make you”


Your business should be number 1 at this point in your life if you haven’t reach the place where you would like to be yet. So if your going to have a girlfriend, she better be helping you in more ways then one on helping you reach your goals, period. If not, don't have a girlfriend, it can wait. What? are you scarded of being lonely? Oh you will never feel lonely if your taking your business seriously, you will be busy!


Your girlfriend is probably not a artist and shes probably not into business. So what you need from her is emotional supporter, that’s important. Your girlfriend cant really do much for you but keep your motivation up and keep your drive on fire. If your girlfriend is not supportive, you have to talk to her and see if you see a change in the next month or two, if not you have to let her go, I'm sorry but how bad do you want to become successful in your life?


If your girlfriend is not supportive then you and your business has negative energy surrounding it. And when there is negative energy around, your going to go down fast or slow. Either way, your going where you don’t want to go.


Forget about what you see on TV. Tyra Banks might say, you need to put your woman first and basically worship her. I'm going to say this the way it needs to be said…

You are more important then your girlfriend!


Na, don’t become selfish or cocky about yourself now, because to her, she is more important then you. All of this is fine, its the way its suppose to be and it works for people who want to be successful.


The point of a relationship is to grow together, work together and help each other reach goals. A relationship is not about showing her off to your friends, having sex and going out to the movies all the time.

If your going to be in a relationship make it a team. And let me say this, if you want to be in love, being in a team with your girlfriend with the intention of, "We are going to help each other be happy with ourselves" will make love stronger then sex or going to the movies will ever do. Have a girlfriend is she is willing to support you a grow with you. But becareful, she may be ready for you but you may not be ready for her. Maybe its not her, its you. And you may really need to just be single.